World Autism Awareness Month
Today on Akella Tech, we'll be talking about something that is not about tech. Shocker. That's right, I've decided to take a digression for this particular post as this month is quite special to me yet is something that not many people know about. April marks the World Autism Awareness Month.
Before we proceed, let's take a moment to clarify what autism really is and run through some common misconceptions. Autism, otherwise referred to as ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) is a type of disability that can severely impact one's social, sensory and self-controlling skills. It is important, however, to note that ASD is not a disease - it's just a different ability. It's a neurological disorder, so you can't easily identify who has it just by looking at someone.
So why should we educate ourselves about this disorder? Well, Autism is one of the fastest growing disabilities in the world - in fact, it is estimated that around 700 000 people in the UK are diagnosed with Autism and that 1 in every 100 children are diagnosed with it. There is no known cure for it as of now. A boy is four times more likely to have ASD than a girl. Furthermore, some say that it is, despite first appearances, the future of humankind. Just because a person is diagnosed with Autism, that doesn't mean that they are mentally slow or unintelligent. In fact, there are lots of well-known people that have been diagnosed with Autism. Here are just a few of them:
- Charles Darwin
- Albert Einstein
- Steve Jobs
- Nikola Tesla
- Andy Warhol
- Bill Gates
- Robert (Bobby) James Fischer
- Lewis Carroll
- Robbie Williams
- Sir Isaac Newton
- Magnus Carlsen
- Elon Musk
- Dr Sheldon Cooper (Yes, I had to add Big Bang Theory references)
Now THAT is a shocker. Who would have known that most innovative, creative and different thinkers of mankind were diagnosed with Autism? Fascinating, isn't it?
How does Autism affect a person diagnosed with it? The impacts are not visible, so you can't draw conclusions just from the naked eye. That being the case, we have figured out that Autism affects different people in different ways. For some, ASD might have a mild impact and for others, it might be severe. The greater the severity, we say the lower they are on the spectrum. Some may have restrictions in verbalising or using their senses whilst others may struggle to socialise as result of anxiety. That moves me onto another point - Autism is not one particular type of disorder, but an umbrella of multiple. The spectrum ranges from sensory integration disorders to ADHD to anxiety. There's just so much, it would be impossible to list all of them right now. No matter what the condition is, however, those with ASD don't have the ability to hate or feel grudges - they can only love even though their actions may speak otherwise. Certain constraints enable them to concentrate better on their work and think without getting distracted even in chaotic environments.
Previously, I mentioned how this month is very special to me - well, that's because my own brother is severely Autistic. Hence, I would like to share some of my experiences as a carer. My brother, albeit his ASD, has brought much joy into our family and is an amazing little person. However, this has not been without many challenges - this includes sleepless nights, sudden cancellations in plans and his unpredictable meltdowns with no clear reason. If he is desperate for something, he is not able to voice his concerns and so it comes out as shutdowns and prolonged tantrums. I am fully aware that his condition will continuously throw challenges and difficulties as time goes on, but it has been received with his boundless love and comfort. When people ask me if I ever wished my brother was normal, I always ask them what their definition of 'normal' is. I also tell them that I love my brother the way he is and wouldn't give it up for the world. My brother really enjoys spending time with us when we go for walks in nature and villages. At times, he can be rather cheeky and bully me into doing things for him; sometimes, however, he just needs a good 'ol hug. In short, his different character traits and nature make this family-loving boy a perfect sibling!
In conclusion, Autism is not necessarily a 'bad' condition or disorder - it's just an example of neurodiversity. In fact, there are a lot of things we can learn from them. In a world that is rife with distractions and temptations, we as humans are self-conscious about every action we make, worried about what other people might think of us. On the contrary, most people with Autism will not be concerned about the trivial matters in life. Most of us may not have ASD as of yet, but that shouldn't stop us from reminding ourselves that we only have one life and that we should live for own self and treat others with unconditional respect.
'Autism is not a disease, don't try to cure it. Try to understand it.'
This is a wonderfully written account of your experiences as an ND sibling. Your support of neuro diversity is just the first step towards making acceptance and awareness regular.
ReplyDeleteNice one Aditya!! I'm really impressed the way you concluded the blog with a quote. Well done!!
ReplyDeleteAditya, this is a really poignant write-up. Really appreciate your empathy and support for your brother.
ReplyDeleteAditya very well written. I find it amazing that such young mind as yours has comprehended the complexities of ASD. I personally and strongly feel the awareness you are trying to bring about is vital. I can understand its not easy .but yes definitely can say my dear that you are acing at it ...... taking care ❤ of your brother. Best wishes always and god bless.
ReplyDeleteFab Aditya ππ .. not only for what and how you have written but also for reminding us that ‘In a world that is rife with distractions and temptations, we as humans are self-conscious about every action we make, worried about what other people might think of us’
ReplyDeleteI agree at times we start living life for others or other’s life and stop living our own!!
With you ππ. Looking fwd to reading your next blog
So beautifully written ππ» Kudosππ» ππ» it helped me understand the condition better. I will definitely be more receptive and considerate towards people with autism and the family / carers supporting them. They are doing an amazing job.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on a very well written blog Aditya. You have highlighted an important dimension of Diversity & Inclusion that I had not considered previously, so thank you for that. Your love for your brother and your ask / plea to others to accept individuals with ASD 'As Is' originates from genuine love and empathy. xxxAnjali
ReplyDeleteNicely written and well articulated. Well done Adityaπ . Keep writing ✍️
ReplyDeleteSo well written, Aditya! He has penned his experiences so wonderfully with a very positive outlook. You are an amazing big brotherπ Very well written and informative ππΌ
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written and well explained. Hopefully more awareness drives more inclusivity and acceptance.
ReplyDeleteAditya you have phrased your words amazingly.
ReplyDeleteLoved reading it. Your unconditional love towards your bro is expressed nicely.
I loved the way you mentioned autism as “neuro diversity” - a single word, yet powerful & easily understood by people who doesn’t know about Autism.
Very well explained and conveyed knowledge about Autism. Thank uou Aditya and God bless you and your family
ReplyDeleteExcellent write up Aditya. It's not just about autism, but your love & affection for your little brother. Keep it up. With love.
ReplyDeleteNicely written by Aditya ��������
ReplyDeleteWell done Aditya.
ReplyDeleteSo well written, Aditya! He has penned his experiences so wonderfully with a very positive outlook. He is an amazing big brother. I totally agree with Aditya’s lines.
ReplyDelete“Autism is not necessarily a 'bad' condition or disorder - it's just an example of neurodiversity. In fact, there are a lot of things we can learn from them”. Very well written and informative.
Brilliant one! Well written, very thoughtful and mature. Well done Adithya!
ReplyDeleteSo well written ... and wat a beautiful way to explain about autism.. more often than not we all kinda know about it but obviously no clue of wat it’s really like
ReplyDeleteThis was a wonderful perspective on the topic!
ReplyDeleteWell explained and conveyed knowledge about Autism.
Very well written and very succinct!
Aditya phrased them amazingly.
ReplyDeleteLoved reading it. His unconditional love towards his bro is expressed nicely.
I loved when he mentioned autism as “neuro diversity”.
How old is Aditya?
Good read ! Well written. The cybersecurity blogs are uber cool too.
ReplyDeleteHe is very articulate. Love the article and I have learnt from it. Such a sweet child, brother he is.
ReplyDeleteIt's a great article and it is very well written.
ReplyDeleteWell done Aditya!
ReplyDeleteVery well written Aditya. Very touching indeed. Proud of you Aditya.
ReplyDeleteWell written Adi! Let’s hope the minds and voices of the young help create the much needed awareness of tolerance and respect to everyone regardless.....
ReplyDeletePreethi and Venkat you are truly blessed to have such wonderful boys! Priya.
What a touching article Aditya! �� I could feel your kindness, warmth & love throughout the article. Well done on writing such a heart-warming blog! Congratulations Preethi & Venkat for bringing up two boys with so much compassion! �� I look forward to reading many more articles on your blog Aditya. - ❤️ & hugs, Nina.
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing blog Aditya! It has really touched my heart and clearly has touched the hearts of many other people. This is really an eye opener for autism awareness and it has helped me understand this a lot more! Its so well written and we are all extremely proud of you. Looking forward to reading more from you!
ReplyDeleteNicely written and eye opener for many .
ReplyDeleteCongratulations aditya and best of luck and looking forward to read books written by you πππ
Well written Aditya. It touched my heart especially the way you narrated your bonding with your brother. Your article was helpful in knowing about autism. I wish you all the best! God bless you
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Beautifully written. Very nicely articulated and each & every word makes sense.ππ
ReplyDeleteOh wow, what beautifully written, heartfelt, uplifting and educational piece. I thought I knew quite a bit about autism (as quite a few friends have children with that special need) but I was wrong about what the high/low ends of the spectrum meant and had them the wrong way round! The article gives hope to those who may see only the downsides of such conditions and in our world of today, where we are increasingly striving to imbibe all facets of Diversity & Inclusion, gives a good intro to the subject of autism. Aditya has a gift of combining the seriousness of the facts with the light-heartedness of that life seen through his own eyes as a carer and I'm not ashamed to say that reading it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you Aditya
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